One question beyond “How was school?”

Some children are ready to talk at pickup. Others need food, quiet, or movement first. You can offer connection without asking for an immediate report. Try: “Was there a moment today when you felt like yourself?” If they say “I don't know,” let that be an answer. You might share a small moment from your own day and return to the conversation later. A father might say, “Today I asked for help with something I didn't understand. I was glad I did.” Ordinary examples make room for ordinary stories, not only achievements. Tonight, try this together Spend five minutes doing something side by side. Fold towels, draw, or take a short walk. Ask one question, then give the conversation space.